E-Book (2011), Second Edition, 90,000 words
http://www.amazon.com/dp/B005AZHR1A/
This book shows Black women how to go about getting involved in interracial relationships and deal with the social pressures that such relationships inevitably attract. It shows how you can clear out your old social conditioning and inhibitions about interracial relationships, tune out the expectations that you should date only Blacks and clarify your reasons for romantic and sexual attraction to White men. This book shows where and how you can go about meeting White men, how to make yourself more interracially approachable, offers guidelines for screening mature and emotionally available White males into your social life and helps you move beyond the shortage of Black men. This book clears away the misconceptions that all too many Black women have about White men and explains what really goes on inside the minds of White men who seek out and date Black women. Women often see men as foreign psychological territory, and racial differences can accentuate such misperceptions and misunderstandings. Black women who have considered the possibilities that interracial relationships offer are all too familiar with the broad spectrum of unspoken taboos and social pressures often serve to block Black women from getting involved in interracial relationships. This book explains the psychosexual origins of the various forms of social opposition to those wearing "the scarlet letter of interracial dating," from the stares interracial couples encounter almost everywhere they go, to why parents work so hard at breaking up the interracial relationships of their offspring to why certain types of disturbed individuals become enraged at the sight of total strangers who happen to be in interracial relationships. Find out how you can best understand, cope with, and tune out, the variety of social pressures that often inhibit Black women from getting, and staying, involved with White men and initiate unembarrassed interracial relationships.
Table Of Contents
1/Why Black Women Should Consider Dating Interracially
2/Reprogramming Yourself For Interracial Dating, Part I
3/Reprogramming Yourself For Interracial Dating, Part II
4/White Male Emotional Availability And Dating Interests
5/Ground Rules For Potential Compatibility
6/Making Yourself More Approachable, Part I
7/Making Yourself More Approachable, Part II
8/Making Yourself More Approachable, Part III
9/Where And How To Meet White Men, Part I
10/Where And How To Meet White Men, Part II
11/Mistakes To Avoid
12/The Scarlet Letter Of Interracial Dating, Part I
13/The Scarlet Letter Of Interracial Dating, Part II
14/Understanding The Opposition To Interracial Relationships, Part I
15/Understanding The Opposition To Interracial Relationships, Part II
16/Understanding The Opposition To Interracial Relationships, Part III
17/Motivating Yourself
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The White Man's Guide To Dating Black Women
E-Book(2011), Second Edition, 51,000 words
http://www.Amazon.com/dp/B005BHQVSW/If you’re a White man interested in dating Black women, this book shows you how to make it happen. Learn about how Black women think, what they like and don’t like to see in White men, and where and how to go about initiating relationships with Black women. Find out how to cope with public reaction to interracial couples, and learn how to counteract the psychological inhibitions that can hold you back from getting involved. Learn about the true nature of the opposition to interracial relationships and get started meeting and dating Black women. Find out what works and get involved.
Table Of Contents
Chapter One
Your Taste For Black Women
Chapter Two
Individuality And Interracial Relationships
Chapter Three
Coping With Public Reaction
Chapter Four
Understanding The Opposition To Interracial Relationships, Part I
Chapter Five
Understanding The Opposition To Interracial Relationships, Part II
Chapter Six
Understanding The Opposition To Interracial Relationships, Part III
Chapter Seven
Getting Ready To Meet Black Women
Chapter Eight
Meeting And Dating Black Women
1 comment:
Dear Adam White
I am a British citizen and a doctoral candidate, in moral, social, and political philosophy, at the University of Michigan, Ann Arbor. I am working under the supervision of Prof. Elizabeth Anderson, whose *The imperative of integration* was recently published by Princeton University Press. My doctoral dissertation is entitled *The duty to miscegenate: From sexual racism to cross-caste companionship*.
I have just purchased your book *The White Man's Guide To Dating Black Women*, in order to help me revise a paper that I have written. I am currently revising, for presentation next month, my paper, entitled *The John Mayer interview, or How to start dating separately from your dick*. The current version of the paper is available here: http://umich.academia.edu/NathanielAdamTobiasColeman/Papers/356773/How_to_start_dating_separately_from_your_dick. I should be very keen to hear your reaction to the argument I make in this paper. Whatever comments or criticisms, however trivial, occur to you, as you read the document, please do share with me. I should be grateful for your feedback; I should be most appreciative!
I look forward to reading your book. I think that your perspective on how John Mayer - or a white men like him - should act, if he sincerely wants to 'start dating separately from [his] dick' will be crucial for the accuracy of the argument I am trying to make.
Yours,
Nathaniel Adam Tobias Coleman
Department of Philosophy
University of Michigan, Ann Arbor, U. S. A.
http://umich.academia.edu/NathanielAdamTobiasColeman
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